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Post by IllyriaWorshipper on Aug 7, 2004 5:30:00 GMT -5
tata.
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Post by bitterman on Aug 7, 2004 5:35:01 GMT -5
I didn't realize there was a term for what we all had -- "unconditional positive regard." What a wonderful phrase. Psyche 101, I think. Or maybe I just picked it up from years and years of therapy. ;D
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Post by IllyriaWorshipper on Aug 7, 2004 5:38:44 GMT -5
you where in therapy?
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Post by bitterman on Aug 7, 2004 5:40:35 GMT -5
Only if you consider irish pubs and barmaids therapeutic.
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Post by Insane Troll Logic on Aug 7, 2004 5:41:45 GMT -5
Only a madman wouldn't, B'man! And Irish Nurses, of course.....
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Post by IllyriaWorshipper on Aug 7, 2004 5:41:55 GMT -5
wait how old are you again?
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Post by bitterman on Aug 7, 2004 5:59:13 GMT -5
And Irish Nurses, of course..... Ahhhhhhh, yes. Ireland's finest export. (ok, the guiness ain't bad either) And a bang on the ear...
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Post by Dr. Purple Goddess on Aug 8, 2004 7:57:58 GMT -5
I see B'man is up on Carl Rogers. Unconditional positive regard can take a LONG time to perfect. The only way he was able to achieve it was to practice therapy with people for years on end. And HE was getting paid. So, I think "UPR" is probably too much to ask for at this point lol.
But on the internet, ignoring the obvious can look much the same so maybe it is possible lol.
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Post by TealBox on Sept 25, 2004 15:37:35 GMT -5
Dear 40-Foot Lilah,
I like a girl but she likes this other guy but I'm fairly certain that she likes me too and that she doesn't like the other guy as much as she says she likes him. Oh, and my friend likes this girl too but he doesn't like the fact that I like the girl and I don't like the fact that he likes the girl so I'm like, "Dude. I liked her a long time before you liked her and you didn't even know her last name until I told it to you like a week ago. So, like, what's up?" and he's like, "Shut up. If you like her just tell her that you like her and if she actually likes you then you don't have to worry about whether I like her or not," and I'm like, "Oh, you'd like that, wouldn't you?" What should I do?
Sincerely,
Like, some one
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Post by IllyriaWorshipper on Sept 25, 2004 19:15:03 GMT -5
Complicated question.
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Post by Disgruntled Gremlin on Sept 26, 2004 0:40:49 GMT -5
(pounces on the question swiftly after an entire month of questionlessness)
Dear Like, Someone, If you're using the word like in every sentence, the courts might just consider it to be something like stalking. If you can't get over the fact that she doesn't like you, there are plenty of likable options that you might like. There are a number of dolls that are extremely life like, for instance. In my experience, people like you might like pornography. Here's a thought- maybe the *lucky* gal that you like might like it if you could purchase something like a thesaurus. -Like, Lilah
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Post by Aunt Arlene on Sept 26, 2004 0:58:04 GMT -5
Dear 40 foot Lilah,
I think the voters need to know more about you. You know, get to know the softer side of Lilah. What's your favorite movie? What's your sign? Have you killed anything lately? What's your favorite color? If you were a vegetable, what kind would you be? Sorry for these hard hitting questions, but people have a right to know.
Signed, Baba Wawa
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Post by Disgruntled Gremlin on Sept 26, 2004 1:12:57 GMT -5
Dear BW, Why thank you. I'm always happy to give some information for a registered voter! Now, let's see... Favourite movie- Dustin Hoffman and Renee Russo gave me LOTS of great ideas in 'Outbreak,' but Kathy Bates crushing the author's legs with the hammer still gets me every time. (chuckling) My astrological sign is Libra- the liberating truth. So you should believe everything I say- or I'll have your family killed, got it? I enjoy black, but there's nothing like good old fashioned red for sheer colorfulness. If I were a vegetable, perhaps an eggplant- smooth, flawless and tasty on the outside- VENOMOUS, VENGEFUL AND MURDEROUS ON THE INSIDE! Of course, I've always had a soft spot for celery. As for my most recent...business meeting, I'll be happy to send you a representative, given you provide your full name, address and all life-threatening allergies. Have an evil day! ~Lilah
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Post by IllyriaWorshipper on Sept 26, 2004 2:05:47 GMT -5
You forgot you look good in Diamonds, Lilah.
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Post by tjaman on Oct 17, 2004 17:15:56 GMT -5
Dear 40-Foot Lilah -- I'm ... I'm just so upset. What should I do? -- Amy Lee
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