Brad's family sucks sometimes

[Charisma69]

So, if you read my status on Facebook you've seen that Brad and I broke up on Friday.

I waited to post something but was feeling kinda down earlier so I actually posted something. I figured it might make me feel better to talk to people about it.

The comments I got were nice but then Brad calls me to ask why I was saying we "finally" broke up. I asked him what he was talking about. Then I went to look at what I wrote.

I wrote Friday Brad and I broke up. His Uncle called him to tell him I was telling everyone in the world that Brad and I Finally broke up so needless to say Brad was a bit upset that I was all happy about our break up.

I set him straight but I'm more than a little bit pissed that his family can't be bothered to read something correctly.

This isn't the first time they've stirred up s**t about stuff on Facebook. They told him I was flirting with ITL awhile back and used some conversation that happened months ago and that I'd forgotten about as proof that I was flirting with other guys.

Brad and I sorted that out. I showed him what was actually said, but it's annoying that they're either really too stupid to read something right or just so determined to stir up s**t to contribute to our break up.

This would be one of the reasons we probably won't be getting back together. He spends loads of time with them and I just can't tolerate liars.

I get that they're his family and he loves spending time with them but I just can't be around people who have so little regard for me that they try starting crap at every turn.

And I'm just supposed to get over it and over look it because that's just how they are. I'm sorry, but I don't play that way.

Only they could turn something where I talk about how I'm hurting over a break up into something else entirely.

[PyleansDontLeaveMe]

Is this the source of that bats**t crazy Kimberly chick?

[Charisma69]

Feb 14, 2011 13:52:19 GMT -5 PyleansDontLeaveMe said:

Is this the source of that bats**t crazy Kimberly chick?

How'd you guess? LOL Yeah, that's Brad's Aunt, who is either a liar or can't read. Not sure which.

Not sure if her crazy ass posts were directed at you or me. She answered you, but she was saying bitch so I guess it was me.

I miss a lot of stuff when I'm at work.

[Charisma69]

Now I see the one directed specifically at me. Brad called me, he doesn't want me to say anything to her he just wants me to block her.

I so want to say something back, but since he works for her husband I don't want him to loose his job.

So, I guess I have to try to leave it alone but this sucks.

[PyleansDontLeaveMe]

Want me to? I can say anything I want with immunity

[Charisma69]

So, I unfriended Brad's Aunt on Facebook 'cause he told me to. He didn't want to loose his job by getting in fights with his Uncle.

So, now she's calling my phone and she left a voice mail telling me to come say stuff to her face.

I told him it was a bad idea for me to unfriend her. That it would just piss her off more 'cause she can't read anything anymore.

sucks trying to hold my tongue.

[PyleansDontLeaveMe]

Thats it, bitch is goin down!

[Charisma69]

Feb 14, 2011 16:43:08 GMT -5 PyleansDontLeaveMe said:

Thats it, bitch is goin down!

You are very sweet Py. So glad you have my back.

Brad doesn't want anything more stirred up since her husband is his boss. He doesn't want to get fired, and his Aunt totally wears the pants in the family.

When he found out she started calling me he called her and bitched her out. Now she says he's banned from coming to their house.

He's not looking forward to work in the morning after all this.

He says I should be scared of her because she's crazy. He said she'll find out where I live and come kick my ass.

Well, I'm not afraid of her but this is stupid. I'm not fighting her, we're not in Junior High for crying out loud.

On the plus side Brad brought me roses to try and cheer me up. We're not officially back together but we did have a nice evening. Not sure I want to get back together because then I'll have to deal with them all the time. They're part of his family so there's no getting around it.

If she goes this insane over something so little I'd hate to see if I actually did something to her.

Granted I probably shouldn't have made the whole "moron" post but I didn't name any names and I was pissed that they called him and lied to him - or they really can't read.

It's not my fault she announced to the world that she was the moron I was talking about.

She was telling him that I messaged her and called her out and all sorts of things. So I told him that all of that was a lie. I had just read the posts she wrote on my wall when he called me. On my wall, not in a private message to her.

I don't know if she really doesn't understand how Facebook works and she thought I was sending a message directly to her or if she was just flat out lying again to try to stir up more s**t.

I'm thinking she was just lying because she told him the original post - that she was replying to - was written for everyone to see.

I really want to tell her that just because she can see something doesn't mean the whole world can. I know how to set my privacy settings.

I was talking about being sad that my boyfriend and I broke up. I didn't see a problem with her reading that or I wouldn't have allowed her to see it.

I so want to set her straight on all this stuff but Brad is upset enough. I don't want to make him possibly loose his job because they've all got a temper. He's mad at her for what she's doing to me. If I stoop to her level then I'm no better than she is, but it sure is frakking hard.