Post by Charisma69 on Feb 15, 2011 13:35:05 GMT -5
It's against my nature to ignore the issue, I want to resolve things. Not Jerry Springer style like her crazy ass does, but I really have lots of things I'd like to say to her right now.
It sucks that Brad works for her husband because I can't say anything to her without making things bad for him. He's already banned from their house. It's not the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last. The family is always fighting about something, but I don't want him to loose his job because his Aunt is apparently insane.
Granted I probably shouldn't have made that passive aggressive post telling "the morons" to go back to hooked on phonics. But in my defense I didn't say who the morons were. Now everyone knows she's the moron since she had to throw a fit where everyone could see it. It's so funny having a school janitor telling me to go flip burgers. The jobs are on the same level of being looked down upon by the general population. The thing is, I have a degree. I can do better. She doesn't. Janitor is all she can ever hope for in a career.
I would so love to say that to her but it's really mean. She deserves it after what she said to me, but I always feel bad being that mean to someone. You can't ever take something like that back. If Brad and I do end up officially back together I'll never be able to go to any of his family gatherings because I don't want to see his Aunt or Uncle again after all this crap.
She was trying to tell Brad yesterday that I privately messaged her the "moron" comment. That is such a lie. It was on my wall for everyone to see, not sent to her directly.
She's got Brad and his Uncle fighting at work over this. He called her yesterday on his way to my house and yelled at her for calling and harassing me - which is when he got banned from their house.
I want to message the rest of his family that's on my friends list and tell them my side of the story since she's going around lying about me. But, then that'll cause more issues since I'm sure they'll just show her what I said.
She can't get into a verbal debate. No, it has to be a Jerry Springer style ass kicking where she's concerned. Save me from the damn rednecks. I'm not afraid of her, my temper can be just as bad as theirs but I can control mine better.
What is violence going to solve? We're not in Junior High.
So now I've got all these pent up emotions and nowhere to go with them. I'm so pissed and upset. My feelings are hurt and she can't talk like a rational adult so I can't do anything for the situation.
Plus, she's bad mouthing me to everyone else and since they're all blood related they'll listen to her. Especially since I can't defend myself without stirring up more crap.
All because I was pissed off because she called Brad and told him I was happy that we "finally" broke up. How they could read that post as me being happy I don't know. Even if you read the first word wrong the other sentences don't sound like someone that's freaking happy.
So, it can't be an honest mistake. It was a deliberate lie. And then she has the balls to say "If" she read it wrong. What does she mean by "if" she read it wrong? The post is still up there. It very obviously says "Friday" not "Finally" I would really like to say of course you read it wrong you dumb ass!!!
And her saying that if I would have called her and pointed it out to her she would have apologized. I don't believe that for a second. Especially since I was so upset when I wrote that about her lying to me that I don't see a conversation where I call her to ask her why she's lying about me is going to turn out good.
And her comment about me not putting personal things on Facebook is stupid. I should be able to say I'm sad because my boyfriend and I broke up. She should be able to read the actual words I say and leave it at that.
It would be different if I really was telling everyone that I was happy we broke up. That would be an asshole move on my part, especially if I was announcing that to the world.
But that's not what I was doing and she knows it. She just likes to stir up s**t and I hate people like that. There's no reasoning with them.
And Brad says the whole family knows they're like that but they just accept it because they're family. He expects me to just accept it too.
Well, I can't accept something like that. I hate people who act like that. I've had enough insults from these two. His Uncle told Brad that he didn't think I could handle being his secretary. I am so over qualified for that it's not even funny. Then his Aunt not having the decency to get back to me on New Year's Eve when my chest was hurting was just horrible. This takes the cake though.
It also puts Brad and I in a position where we don't know if we should get back together or not. He's all about his family and now I can't stand to be around them - not all of them but there's no going anywhere without Mike and Kim around.
So that leaves him going to all family functions alone and he's not okay with that.
It was so nice of him to have my back against them though. Even though we are broke up. He could have just taken his Aunt's word for it since he doesn't have a Facebook page and not even let me clear my name.
But he not only listened to me he's yelled at both of them for being assholes. He yelled at Mike in front of everyone at work yesterday.
I'm not sure how today is going. He has to tell Mike that Kim lied about me directly messaging her on Facebook. I also told him to tell Mike to let Kim know that only reason I wasn't answering her calls was because Brad asked me not to.
So now I've got a massive headache and I couldn't sleep last night because all this stuff keeps swirling around in my head. I really want to tell her how I feel and it sucks that I can't.
Anyway, thanks for being there for me guys. You are the best!
It sucks that Brad works for her husband because I can't say anything to her without making things bad for him. He's already banned from their house. It's not the first time and I'm sure it won't be the last. The family is always fighting about something, but I don't want him to loose his job because his Aunt is apparently insane.
Granted I probably shouldn't have made that passive aggressive post telling "the morons" to go back to hooked on phonics. But in my defense I didn't say who the morons were. Now everyone knows she's the moron since she had to throw a fit where everyone could see it. It's so funny having a school janitor telling me to go flip burgers. The jobs are on the same level of being looked down upon by the general population. The thing is, I have a degree. I can do better. She doesn't. Janitor is all she can ever hope for in a career.
I would so love to say that to her but it's really mean. She deserves it after what she said to me, but I always feel bad being that mean to someone. You can't ever take something like that back. If Brad and I do end up officially back together I'll never be able to go to any of his family gatherings because I don't want to see his Aunt or Uncle again after all this crap.
She was trying to tell Brad yesterday that I privately messaged her the "moron" comment. That is such a lie. It was on my wall for everyone to see, not sent to her directly.
She's got Brad and his Uncle fighting at work over this. He called her yesterday on his way to my house and yelled at her for calling and harassing me - which is when he got banned from their house.
I want to message the rest of his family that's on my friends list and tell them my side of the story since she's going around lying about me. But, then that'll cause more issues since I'm sure they'll just show her what I said.
She can't get into a verbal debate. No, it has to be a Jerry Springer style ass kicking where she's concerned. Save me from the damn rednecks. I'm not afraid of her, my temper can be just as bad as theirs but I can control mine better.
What is violence going to solve? We're not in Junior High.
So now I've got all these pent up emotions and nowhere to go with them. I'm so pissed and upset. My feelings are hurt and she can't talk like a rational adult so I can't do anything for the situation.
Plus, she's bad mouthing me to everyone else and since they're all blood related they'll listen to her. Especially since I can't defend myself without stirring up more crap.
All because I was pissed off because she called Brad and told him I was happy that we "finally" broke up. How they could read that post as me being happy I don't know. Even if you read the first word wrong the other sentences don't sound like someone that's freaking happy.
So, it can't be an honest mistake. It was a deliberate lie. And then she has the balls to say "If" she read it wrong. What does she mean by "if" she read it wrong? The post is still up there. It very obviously says "Friday" not "Finally" I would really like to say of course you read it wrong you dumb ass!!!
And her saying that if I would have called her and pointed it out to her she would have apologized. I don't believe that for a second. Especially since I was so upset when I wrote that about her lying to me that I don't see a conversation where I call her to ask her why she's lying about me is going to turn out good.
And her comment about me not putting personal things on Facebook is stupid. I should be able to say I'm sad because my boyfriend and I broke up. She should be able to read the actual words I say and leave it at that.
It would be different if I really was telling everyone that I was happy we broke up. That would be an asshole move on my part, especially if I was announcing that to the world.
But that's not what I was doing and she knows it. She just likes to stir up s**t and I hate people like that. There's no reasoning with them.
And Brad says the whole family knows they're like that but they just accept it because they're family. He expects me to just accept it too.
Well, I can't accept something like that. I hate people who act like that. I've had enough insults from these two. His Uncle told Brad that he didn't think I could handle being his secretary. I am so over qualified for that it's not even funny. Then his Aunt not having the decency to get back to me on New Year's Eve when my chest was hurting was just horrible. This takes the cake though.
It also puts Brad and I in a position where we don't know if we should get back together or not. He's all about his family and now I can't stand to be around them - not all of them but there's no going anywhere without Mike and Kim around.
So that leaves him going to all family functions alone and he's not okay with that.
It was so nice of him to have my back against them though. Even though we are broke up. He could have just taken his Aunt's word for it since he doesn't have a Facebook page and not even let me clear my name.
But he not only listened to me he's yelled at both of them for being assholes. He yelled at Mike in front of everyone at work yesterday.
I'm not sure how today is going. He has to tell Mike that Kim lied about me directly messaging her on Facebook. I also told him to tell Mike to let Kim know that only reason I wasn't answering her calls was because Brad asked me not to.
So now I've got a massive headache and I couldn't sleep last night because all this stuff keeps swirling around in my head. I really want to tell her how I feel and it sucks that I can't.
Anyway, thanks for being there for me guys. You are the best!
