Post by Charisma69 on Jan 20, 2007 18:31:13 GMT -5
And boy does it ever. My life is full of way too much drama at the moment actually.
Okay, as you guys know - if you've been paying any sort of attention at all that is - I've been seeing someone. He's a pretty good guy, lots of fun and a great kisser.
Problem is he has an ex wife. The woman is completely mental. I say this not because of him but because I used to work with her and I know what she did to my friend William Floyd when she dated him. She put that poor guy through the wringer. She took their breakup really hard and she stalked him forever.
She even tried to convince everyone that he got her pregnant - which was a total lie. Then she went to far as to try to get someone else to get her pregnant so she could come back to William Floyd and say it was his.
She once broke into his house and hid in one of his back rooms that was full of trash. They found her actually sitting in the middle of the trash.
She's actually been trying to get back in touch with him recently. She even called his Mom to ask what size shirt he wore and if she thought it would be okay if she bought him a new shirt.
Now she's screwing around with Brandon's life. They were married and have an 18 month old son. She's trying to keep him from even getting to see his son now since they split up.
I don't know all the details of why they broke up, nor do I think it's my business to know at this point.
I do know that they have an Ex parte against the other - which basically means they both can't be in the same place at the same time.
Well, I do know that they have both broken the Ex Parte agreement at different times. She broke it when his Grandpa was dying, and at his funeral. She kept coming by the house, was hanging all over him, his Aunt said she basically wouldn't let him take a step without her being there.
Then he broke it over Christmas to call her about visitation with his son.
So, New Years Eve we're all at Outlaws. He's minding his own business ignoring her and her friends. She sends her friends over to harass him - and then she comes over to our table to supposedly try to calm things down.
He basically couldn't go anywhere that night without her hanging around.
At one point we both left to get some more cash and she went up and started telling Heather all this stuff about him that wasn't true.
So when we got back Heather was pissed off at him. I tried to tell her to wait until later to say anything about it since Crystal was saying such horrible things and he was upset enough already just because she was there to begin with.
Well, Heather made it too obvious that she was mad so then he was even more upset.
When Crystal found out who I was - and she then remembered working with me - she was pissed. She ran straight to him and started yelling at him. Basically indicating that her charges were false because she was very obviously jealous.
Then she started trying to act like my best friend. I was curious to see what she had to say so I was nice to her as well. I really shouldn't have been because Brandon thought I was betraying him.
Anyway, she told me he molested a 14-year-old girl, he cheated on her numerous times, and a few other things. She told me that she didn't want to see me get hurt.
She also told me she was planning on kicking my @ss before until she found out who I was. She said she always liked me and remembered all the crap I went through with my ex and she didn't want to see me go through it again.
I just nodded and smiled at her but I was only vaguely paying attention to her.
Suddenly she darted off and ran over to him. She was pissed. Apparently I nodded at the wrong thing.
So I walk up to see what's going on and she's yelling at him about having sex with me. I said, "Did I say we had sex?"
She told me no but then she stared yelling at him again.
Well, during this whole thing I'm getting more and more irritated so I drank too much which is too bad because Brandon and I both ended up getting our feelings hurt by each other because we weren't actually communicating with each other.
We ended up straightening that out later and I will never pretend to be nice to someone again to get info. Especially without letting other parties involved know what I'm doing first so they don't get hurt.
So, when we left that night she thought Heather and I bought everything she said. She wasn't done with Brandon though.
On January 3rd she decided to press charges against him for calling her about the visitation and for being at his own Grandpa's funeral. Now who the hell does something like that?
He had more of a right to be there than she did and I just can't believe she would do something like that - but then again she's mental.
So, he had 4 arrest warrants out for him - for three phone calls and the funeral - and a cash bond of $1,500 each.
That's a $6,000 cash bond. For a cash bond you have to actually have that much cash to bail him out. That's a lot of money.
So, we tried helping him hide out while we tried to come up with a way to get the money. At first we thought all the charges together was $1,500 but then we found out that was for each individual charge.
His lawyer told him to lay low and she was going to try to help either get the charges dropped or at least change the type of bond so we could get him out for 10%.
The night we found out about the charges I went to Outlaws to ask her why she was doing it.
She still thought we were the bestest of friends so she was so nice to me.
When I asked her about the charges she said she didn't have anything to do with it. She said the prosecutor just did it on his own.
Then she had me go out to her car to listen to some answering machine messages that he left that were supposed to prove to me that he was psycho.
After listening to them I told her the only thing it showed me was that he was concerned about his son.
She got pissed that I didn't see it like that and then started making remarks about how he was using me and I was stupid for not believing her.
I told her that she would have a much better case for herself if it wasn't for the fact the I know what she did to Billy.
She admitted to me that she went crazy when she broke up with Billy but told me that it was in the past and she wasn't like that anymore.
Then she started with the whole Brandon is a molester thing - except now it was lots of girls instead of just the one.
I told her that just a few days ago you told me that it was the one girl and now it's several.
She got mad and said she could name three off the top of her head. She didn't actually name them though.
Then she was talking about how much she loved him but she kept getting angry that I wasn't buying her crap.
I tried telling her to drop all her crap for their sons sake. I said that she was just hurting her son by doing this revenge thing.
She kept trying to tell me that he cheated on her and this and that but I told her that was no excuse for doing this to him.
And it was going to really hurt their son in the long run. I said they both needed to learn to act like adults and get along at least well enough so they could both see their son.
I told her it wasn't right to do this to anyone.
She didn't see it that way, we were both pretty pissed and I left.
Then she tried pressing charges against Brandon in our county by saying he was their with me in the car when I came.
Number one, he wasn't even in the same city as me that night. Number two - she didn't even see my car.
She was inside when I drove up. When I was walking to my car I didn't walk directly to it. She walked into the building before I got to my car.
Our County didn't buy her crap though. They basically laughed at her.
All the warrants are from Iron County where they believe everything she says because her parents apparently have money.
On Thursday night at Midnight one of Brandon's friends turned him in. So now he's locked up in Iron County until either his trial or until we can figure a way to bond him out.
His lawyer wants to get it reduced but the prosecutor isn't budging. She wants us all to write out letters telling the prosecutor that Crystal isn't the angel he seems to think she is so maybe they'll change his bond.
So Heather and I have to try to remember all the crap Crystal pulled with Billy to try to help out.
Problem is, they want dates and times and such. It's been a few years since Crystal was with Billy and I didn't pay enough attention to all of that at the time.
I was going through crap of my own so most of what I know would be considered hearsay and I'm not sure it would be much help.
We all know that she lies and manipulates to get attention. She threatened suicide to Billy several times before they finally broke up.
I remember telling him that I was going to buy him a t-shirt that said "Psycho Magnet" because of her.
Last night she was at Outlaws so I went up to her in the bathroom. I said, "I hope you're proud of yourself"
She's like, "For what?"
I said "For having Brandon arrested"
She told me again that it wasn't her doing. She said the prosecutor did it on his own.
I said, but someone had to tell him about the stuff in order for him to know.
She actually told me that Brandon did that himself.
Then she was trying to lie about the charges until I said, "Um ... you do realize that I can look those up online and see exactly what they're for right?"
She didn't like that at all.
I told her she should be "Mother of the Year" - and I mean that in the most sarcastic way possible - for doing this to her sons Dad.
She's like, "You're right, I should be."
I said, what kind of sick person presses charges against someone for being at their Grandpa's funeral?
So, while I'm saying this to her she's turning white as a ghost and looks like a deer in the headlights.
Then she starts trying to open the bathroom stall that her friend is in.
She keeps twisting the door knob and saying, "Are you done yet? Are you done yet?" to her friend.
It was freakin' hilarious. I guess she figured if she could get into the stall I'd leave her alone - or maybe she thought her friend would protect her. I don't know?
Oh, and she made some comment about me being the girl he was sleeping with this week to which I replied, "But I didn't sleep with him this week."
Betty thought that was hilarious.
So when she came back out of the stall I told her that for her information Brandon and I are just friends - which is a lie but I believe a necessary one to help him get his son back.
Also, it was just so fun to see the look on her face for that one.
And I kept going on about what she did to Billy and how she was so psycho with him.
This time she told me that she was never psycho with Billy - which is a complete about face from the last time we talked.
Well, there's a bit more but I have to leave to go see Heather's kids play basketball so I'll finish this all later.
I would like advice as to how to word my letter so I can get him out. The psycho just can't win.
I hate manipulative liars and that's what she is. All the way.
Which isn't to say that he never did anything wrong but he doesn't deserve this. Nobody does.
Okay, as you guys know - if you've been paying any sort of attention at all that is - I've been seeing someone. He's a pretty good guy, lots of fun and a great kisser.
Problem is he has an ex wife. The woman is completely mental. I say this not because of him but because I used to work with her and I know what she did to my friend William Floyd when she dated him. She put that poor guy through the wringer. She took their breakup really hard and she stalked him forever.
She even tried to convince everyone that he got her pregnant - which was a total lie. Then she went to far as to try to get someone else to get her pregnant so she could come back to William Floyd and say it was his.
She once broke into his house and hid in one of his back rooms that was full of trash. They found her actually sitting in the middle of the trash.
She's actually been trying to get back in touch with him recently. She even called his Mom to ask what size shirt he wore and if she thought it would be okay if she bought him a new shirt.
Now she's screwing around with Brandon's life. They were married and have an 18 month old son. She's trying to keep him from even getting to see his son now since they split up.
I don't know all the details of why they broke up, nor do I think it's my business to know at this point.
I do know that they have an Ex parte against the other - which basically means they both can't be in the same place at the same time.
Well, I do know that they have both broken the Ex Parte agreement at different times. She broke it when his Grandpa was dying, and at his funeral. She kept coming by the house, was hanging all over him, his Aunt said she basically wouldn't let him take a step without her being there.
Then he broke it over Christmas to call her about visitation with his son.
So, New Years Eve we're all at Outlaws. He's minding his own business ignoring her and her friends. She sends her friends over to harass him - and then she comes over to our table to supposedly try to calm things down.
He basically couldn't go anywhere that night without her hanging around.
At one point we both left to get some more cash and she went up and started telling Heather all this stuff about him that wasn't true.
So when we got back Heather was pissed off at him. I tried to tell her to wait until later to say anything about it since Crystal was saying such horrible things and he was upset enough already just because she was there to begin with.
Well, Heather made it too obvious that she was mad so then he was even more upset.
When Crystal found out who I was - and she then remembered working with me - she was pissed. She ran straight to him and started yelling at him. Basically indicating that her charges were false because she was very obviously jealous.
Then she started trying to act like my best friend. I was curious to see what she had to say so I was nice to her as well. I really shouldn't have been because Brandon thought I was betraying him.
Anyway, she told me he molested a 14-year-old girl, he cheated on her numerous times, and a few other things. She told me that she didn't want to see me get hurt.
She also told me she was planning on kicking my @ss before until she found out who I was. She said she always liked me and remembered all the crap I went through with my ex and she didn't want to see me go through it again.
I just nodded and smiled at her but I was only vaguely paying attention to her.
Suddenly she darted off and ran over to him. She was pissed. Apparently I nodded at the wrong thing.
So I walk up to see what's going on and she's yelling at him about having sex with me. I said, "Did I say we had sex?"
She told me no but then she stared yelling at him again.
Well, during this whole thing I'm getting more and more irritated so I drank too much which is too bad because Brandon and I both ended up getting our feelings hurt by each other because we weren't actually communicating with each other.
We ended up straightening that out later and I will never pretend to be nice to someone again to get info. Especially without letting other parties involved know what I'm doing first so they don't get hurt.
So, when we left that night she thought Heather and I bought everything she said. She wasn't done with Brandon though.
On January 3rd she decided to press charges against him for calling her about the visitation and for being at his own Grandpa's funeral. Now who the hell does something like that?
He had more of a right to be there than she did and I just can't believe she would do something like that - but then again she's mental.
So, he had 4 arrest warrants out for him - for three phone calls and the funeral - and a cash bond of $1,500 each.
That's a $6,000 cash bond. For a cash bond you have to actually have that much cash to bail him out. That's a lot of money.
So, we tried helping him hide out while we tried to come up with a way to get the money. At first we thought all the charges together was $1,500 but then we found out that was for each individual charge.
His lawyer told him to lay low and she was going to try to help either get the charges dropped or at least change the type of bond so we could get him out for 10%.
The night we found out about the charges I went to Outlaws to ask her why she was doing it.
She still thought we were the bestest of friends so she was so nice to me.
When I asked her about the charges she said she didn't have anything to do with it. She said the prosecutor just did it on his own.
Then she had me go out to her car to listen to some answering machine messages that he left that were supposed to prove to me that he was psycho.
After listening to them I told her the only thing it showed me was that he was concerned about his son.
She got pissed that I didn't see it like that and then started making remarks about how he was using me and I was stupid for not believing her.
I told her that she would have a much better case for herself if it wasn't for the fact the I know what she did to Billy.
She admitted to me that she went crazy when she broke up with Billy but told me that it was in the past and she wasn't like that anymore.
Then she started with the whole Brandon is a molester thing - except now it was lots of girls instead of just the one.
I told her that just a few days ago you told me that it was the one girl and now it's several.
She got mad and said she could name three off the top of her head. She didn't actually name them though.
Then she was talking about how much she loved him but she kept getting angry that I wasn't buying her crap.
I tried telling her to drop all her crap for their sons sake. I said that she was just hurting her son by doing this revenge thing.
She kept trying to tell me that he cheated on her and this and that but I told her that was no excuse for doing this to him.
And it was going to really hurt their son in the long run. I said they both needed to learn to act like adults and get along at least well enough so they could both see their son.
I told her it wasn't right to do this to anyone.
She didn't see it that way, we were both pretty pissed and I left.
Then she tried pressing charges against Brandon in our county by saying he was their with me in the car when I came.
Number one, he wasn't even in the same city as me that night. Number two - she didn't even see my car.
She was inside when I drove up. When I was walking to my car I didn't walk directly to it. She walked into the building before I got to my car.
Our County didn't buy her crap though. They basically laughed at her.
All the warrants are from Iron County where they believe everything she says because her parents apparently have money.
On Thursday night at Midnight one of Brandon's friends turned him in. So now he's locked up in Iron County until either his trial or until we can figure a way to bond him out.
His lawyer wants to get it reduced but the prosecutor isn't budging. She wants us all to write out letters telling the prosecutor that Crystal isn't the angel he seems to think she is so maybe they'll change his bond.
So Heather and I have to try to remember all the crap Crystal pulled with Billy to try to help out.
Problem is, they want dates and times and such. It's been a few years since Crystal was with Billy and I didn't pay enough attention to all of that at the time.
I was going through crap of my own so most of what I know would be considered hearsay and I'm not sure it would be much help.
We all know that she lies and manipulates to get attention. She threatened suicide to Billy several times before they finally broke up.
I remember telling him that I was going to buy him a t-shirt that said "Psycho Magnet" because of her.
Last night she was at Outlaws so I went up to her in the bathroom. I said, "I hope you're proud of yourself"
She's like, "For what?"
I said "For having Brandon arrested"
She told me again that it wasn't her doing. She said the prosecutor did it on his own.
I said, but someone had to tell him about the stuff in order for him to know.
She actually told me that Brandon did that himself.
Then she was trying to lie about the charges until I said, "Um ... you do realize that I can look those up online and see exactly what they're for right?"
She didn't like that at all.
I told her she should be "Mother of the Year" - and I mean that in the most sarcastic way possible - for doing this to her sons Dad.
She's like, "You're right, I should be."
I said, what kind of sick person presses charges against someone for being at their Grandpa's funeral?
So, while I'm saying this to her she's turning white as a ghost and looks like a deer in the headlights.
Then she starts trying to open the bathroom stall that her friend is in.
She keeps twisting the door knob and saying, "Are you done yet? Are you done yet?" to her friend.
It was freakin' hilarious. I guess she figured if she could get into the stall I'd leave her alone - or maybe she thought her friend would protect her. I don't know?
Oh, and she made some comment about me being the girl he was sleeping with this week to which I replied, "But I didn't sleep with him this week."
Betty thought that was hilarious.
So when she came back out of the stall I told her that for her information Brandon and I are just friends - which is a lie but I believe a necessary one to help him get his son back.
Also, it was just so fun to see the look on her face for that one.
And I kept going on about what she did to Billy and how she was so psycho with him.
This time she told me that she was never psycho with Billy - which is a complete about face from the last time we talked.
Well, there's a bit more but I have to leave to go see Heather's kids play basketball so I'll finish this all later.
I would like advice as to how to word my letter so I can get him out. The psycho just can't win.
I hate manipulative liars and that's what she is. All the way.
Which isn't to say that he never did anything wrong but he doesn't deserve this. Nobody does.